Frustrations

I have been dealing with so many frustrations here lately.....I'm really not sure what to do. I mean....between my boys' bicking and Tim's too numerous issues, an ohhh my mom and her problems. How do I have time for the things that I need. I mean really. That's not counting my work problems (my boss' secretary is pushing things on me to do....I know that he's noticed it). I have my classes and a book to write. So, where in all of this is time for me?!? Where do i have time to relax and if I did make time......would I seriously be able to? Or would I just worry more about things that I should be doing instead? Probably the later. My friends keep telling to take the time for me and do something to relax. But what? I don't know? There are not that many things to do in order to relax. I can't go to a spa.....no money. I used to relax in with a nice long hot bubble bath......listening to soft jazz music. I might have to try that.